Helping Children Understand

Suggestions on Communicating With Older Children About Pregnancy-Related Depression

• Use simple and descriptive words like sad, cranky, tired, weak, worried, or grouchy.
• Reassure them often that they did not cause the problem.
• Let them know that this is not the kind of illness caused by germs. She did not catch it from anyone.
• Let the children know that mom is getting help and will get better soon.
• Let them know that mom may have some good and some bad times as she recovers.
• Ask the children how they can help mom to feel better - like drawing a pretty picture. 

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